Tactics to Win Her Back
You may have split up with your girl and if this was not something that you had wanted to happen, then you will probably be looking at ways to get her back.
The chances are that you are probably in a place at the moment, where it feels like your world has come crashing down around you. She will be constantly on your mind every minute of the day, and you’ll be wondering is today going to be the day she’ll ring you. It will seem like your life is empty now she is not in it.
If you’re like most men you will try and think of ways to win her back. Most men when their relationship comes to an end hound their ex’s they follow them each time they leave the house. On the phone all the time to her. Begging her to come back to you. Another common method is to burst into tears in front of her.
This plan is not going to work, it could make things worse for you not better. She ended the relationship because she didn’t want to be with you anymore. By following her every move will not only push her further away, she could phone the police. You need to change your tactics, if you want to win her love back.
Leave her alone to think things through. We’ve established that you miss her, but don’t forget that she did get together with you because she liked you, give her a chance to miss you as well. When you do see her, you will need to hide the sorrow, bitterness or any resentment that you might feel. Explain to her you know that you didn’t make her feel as special as you should have done, and you could have done more for her.
Don’t make the mistake of coming over all, my life is over without you. Be extra nice to her, don’t argue with her, prove to her what she means to you. She’l be expecting you to act in a certain way, don’t do it. Show her you can be happy, but you are ashamed you let this happen.
Don’t think now your in you’ll just stay until she chucks you out. Give it 15 minutes at the most then leave, giving her plenty time to go over what has been talked about. Give her time, so that little doubts start to appear in her mind.
Do not suggest making another go of it, this will be her decision. You need to plant the seeds in her mind, and leave her to let them grow. Let her see what she is missing, but don’t push it too much. She will probably find some reason to contact you again. Don’t come over all needy when she does. Ask after her, don’t talk about yourself. You chose to be with her, so make it all about her. These methods will be one of the best ways to reverse the break up.
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